ShyAnne
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My ex boyfriend is acting stalker-ish now, messaging me on Facebook night and day. I loved him a lot but he broke things off. I don't want to be with him now. Should I delete and block him?
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A difficult situation but the best thing you can do is send him a final message stating why you can't be reconciled, wish him well for the future and tell him you will be blocking him, as you both need to get on with your lives.
If he starts to act like a freak and you feel in any way threatened, then you might need to contact the authorities.
Break ups can be hard but they are part of life and you shouldn't feel guilty.
Good Luck.
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For your own safety, block anyone that is being harassing or acting in an inappropriate way.
You might think you still know this person but if their behavior has recently changed, that could indicate a dangerous mental break that could endanger your health or safety.
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Beverly
If he's asking for reconciliation and you are not ready for that, then just say so. Also, be sure to tell him to stop messaging you. You might have already done this, but maybe he isn't taking your request seriously. Just say that you need some room to breathe for a while to get your thoughts together. Time apart will likely be a good thing.
Since you know this person in real life, you can just as easily pick up the phone and call him to talk about why he is acting this way.
That will likely get the situation resolved more easily. If his messages are threatening or abusive, or harassing in any way, you need to delete and block him. If he's asking for reconciliation and you are not ready for that, then just say so. Also, be sure to tell him to stop messaging you. You might have already done this, but maybe he isn't taking your request seriously. Just say that you need some room to breathe for a while to get your thoughts together. Time apart will likely be a good thing. Since you know this person in real life, you can just as easily pick up the phone and call him to talk about why he is acting this way. That will likely get the situation resolved more easily.
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